This is actually an essential subject for guys whose egos may mislead them into believing something that just isn't so.

There is this talk of Genuine Burning Desire in the Red Pill to separate the wheat from the chaff, but is it the reason why she sleeps fast with you?

Girls will shag you fast for different reasons. And won't, generally for the wrong reasons. The girls are not conscious of it, but as guys, we know better.

So what are some of the most common reasons?

=> Right Place Right Time => You may not be her first choice, but because you are in the right environment, she is horny and she won't think twice about you after getting her ten toes up. You may not even be hot, but you will just do.

=> The Dickhead on a Date => You are a bit retarded, but fun at the same time, so she is having a good time, but she can't see you as someone serious, but you make her horny. Guys will even be surprised that, despite having a good time with her, she did too. She will not want to see him again. She already made up her mind that it could not lead anywhere, as she won't allow herself to be such a girl with a guy she wants as a BF. "It was just a shag"

=> She is high on recreational Drugs => She is at a festival, at a club, on a night out, on holidays, or even chilling at yours. She will jump on you because you manufactured a situation where the odds were stacked in your favour.

Genuine Burning Desire => You go on a date or you meet randomly, but the chemistry is such that you are her type, and everything is effortless. There is no BS, and it is one of the best experiences you can have. This does not have to be with a High Value Guy. It is pure lust.

=> Transactional Shag => She may not be a hooker, but she has the mindset of one. So if you make her live an exclusive experience and she knows you can deliver more, she will give it up quickly. Still, she sees you as a transitory or transactional guy, opportunistic and obligated fuck. Or she knows you can be the right middle, the network she seeks to reach, but needs a buy-in.

More often than not, it has to do with her AGENDA. Not GENUINE BURNING DESIRE.

But are there times when she likes you and will hold out?

That is generally after she has been run through. Not that they don't like you. They just don't like you that much because, otherwise, you will have triggered her previous buttons.

More importantly, you can fall into two categories:

1) Where before she used to go with 8+ (using the ratings scale to make the illustration easier to understand), as she gets older, she is satisfied to settle for 6 or 7, who are loyal and nicer, because needs must when it comes to settling.

2) Where she is not caring so much about the looks, but she wants a meal ticket who can support the lifestyle that she used to have, thanks to her beauty and somewhat monetised poon.

Both of these guys, she will make them wait. Why? Because inside her head, she feels she is doing them a favour, as her value is anchored to the association of the better guys of the past, thus it is a downgrade.

This is why you should not accept, no matter how well she is selling you the fact that “she likes you” (“for a specific and opportunistic purpose” is silent). Her action in believing you will see her again, despite holding out is because she does not place you in her younger days higher categories.

But going back to the original suggestion of the post. Why does she give the best poon to the guys who she thinks ain't shit?

There are two levels of environment.

1st level of environment is the one she is in, which can put her in the right predisposition to get fvcked.

=> Right Place Right Time => ONS most often

=> She is on recreational drugs => FWB, ONS

=> Transactional Shag => Sugar Daddies or HVM fvck

But when you don't have the money to put her in the right environment, or you don't do drugs (although these are great enhancers when it comes to sex), you will have to rely on yourself.

2nd level is where your persona creates the right environment (you don't rely on the external as a crutch, the internal creates the external, which she embraces), which leads you to the two other categories:

=>Dickhead on a Date=> Where you manufacture emotions that get her riled up, but wet at the same time. She won't let you back in, or you will become a sneaky link.

=> Genuine Desire => Where everything falls into place without you trying. Where a relationship can come out it.

Important note:

The best sex you are going to get is from the position of the loser.

"Many men believe women fuck “bad boys”, dropouts, slackers, etc, because “bad boys” are “rebels”. That belief is false and is usually indulged by sexless men to avoid facing their frustration from attempting to solve their sexless problem.

Men who believe “bad boys” are “rebels” or “alpha” cannot accept reality. The reason women fuck “bad boys” is that women want sex without responsibility.

Women want to fuck with no consequences, no pregnancy and no emotional attachment from a man. If the man gets emotionally attached or is conscientious, the woman gets frustrated and angry because his emotional attachment or conscientiousness places a burden on her.

She labels the emotionally attached man as “needy” and the conscientious man as “controlling”. This is why women fuck losers.

They fuck losers before any other man because they do not want to be held accountable for an emotional relationship. This functional relationship accomplishes anything, and they do not want to be responsible for children.

An emotionally attached man or a conscientious man holds women to a higher standard of behaviour than a “bad boy”. Women are not willing to perform to that higher standard.

The reality is, women will shag you not because of who you are, but because of the association you find yourself in with her.

That is the blackest pill for all of the big Egos guys out there.

Even when she has genuine burning desire for you, you are just a cog in the machine that enables her to get to the feeling she seeks. You are not the end, you are the means.

She does not love Chad; she loves the feeling of the association she benefits from someone she unconsciously sees as higher than her.

Women are status-seeking creatures, where being associated with someone with high status trumps all other factors, looks included. Why ugly ass mofos with clout can overshadow their poor genetics with the associated value they offer that women want to leach from.

CONCLUSION:

What is key to remember is that people in general are more afraid of losses than they are seeking the win. So they will go further to avoid the L, rather than work for the W.

That is also why they will play it safe with a guy who is too good on paper, as the stakes are higher. They will portray someone they are not because they are afraid of the loss by going all-in.

Guys will change their winning ways when they feel they are punching with a girl.

Winning teams will change their tactics at the gates of glory, even though their original tactics were what got them there (e.g. Pep Guardiola tinkering at the Semi-Final stages of the Champions League).

Where guys will feel they can do the dirtiest stuff to some randos as there are little repercussions (cough cough hate fuck).

Where girls will feel they can test trade more edgy stuff on some guy without fear of judgment, things they would not want a potential boyfriend to see.

Where teams will try out new tactics against minnows in Tinpot cup competitions, or relegation fodder in the league.

Knowing all this, you may ask yourself why you are still focusing on getting sex fast, as it is no guarantee of Genuine Burning Desire.

She's trying to create conditions for an emotional connection before the sexual

Not realising, of course, that the moment the man accepts the idea, he instantly devalues himself compared to all the men she didn't make them wait.

And this creates an invisible damper on the sexual attraction.

Getting sex fast is not the silver bullet to guarantee Genuine Burning Desire. Still, it is the bulletproof jacket to avoid getting the crumbs from women who, despite what may be consciously their best intentions, don't know what the fuck they are doing.

Girls will have sex fast for different reasons as described above; it is for you to have the discernment to gauge what that reason was.

Regardless, you are not the end goal in her eyes. The above is useful only to know what the next treatment you will receive will be.

As most of the dead bedrooms are resulting from the man accepting the frame women sold to them that they “liked them” but they really did not, once they understand the purpose of what was behind the “like” and associated with relatively poorer treatment (more work for more used poon) he got compared to the men of the past. It is making the mistake of appreciating women’s self-awareness, which is an oxymoron.

In an era where 80%+ of women have had one-night stands, this is the trap most men will fall for. When the most intimate act is used as a weapon, consciously or unconsciously, rather than as a sanctification of something more (a relationship), it is about assuring yourself of her genuine intentions with you (that she is too solipsistic to appreciate), rather than qualifying for purity as that would be an equivalent probability to a woman looking for a guy they most likely don’t qualify for.