So you want to approach hot women, but you feel you don't qualify for them.

Here is how to shift that belief:

1. CONFIDENCE ISN'T TRUTH

It is just the conviction in your version of reality, even if it is not aligned with the objective reality of your existing results. Guys can't move away from this because they are too focused on tangible past outcomes; they can't seek higher.

2. CONFIDENCE BOOSTS YOUR PERCEIVED VALUE

You might be a 6, but act like an 8 - and you increase the chances others will treat you like one. Perception beats reality. Your inability to behave in the right way only subcommunicates past failure, rather than pre-qualification.

3. CONFIDENCE ISN'T COMPETENCE

Confidence creates opportunities for competence to grow. People see the results, never the process. That is why they will be coping to understand how someone they would not deem qualified for an 8 gets with one, and attribute objective units.

4. FAILURE IS LACK OF APPROACHING, NOT REJECTION

If you don't approach, you have already failed. You pre-rejected yourself because you don't assume you "qualify". You were so intimidated by her subjective reality that, through your self-sabotage, you call it humility.

5. ENTITLEMENT IS NOT ALWAYS BAD

It is believing you deserve more than your past suggests. Women do it naturally, because they are delusional, and get, sometimes on a micro level, better outcomes than they "should". Men struggle as they are too focused on the objective truth.

6. SHE DOES NOT DEFINE YOUR VALUE

A "no" is not a loss - it is a clarity. She is always right, whether she rejects you or not, because you don't want someone who does not want you. You only want someone who wants you. When she does, don't try to guess why; it is because you are great.

7. THE MASCULINE BURDEN OF PERFORMANCE

You must build yourself, believe in yourself, and act in alignment with that belief, no matter the outcome. Unless someone is a trust fund kid, they had to work to get their wealth. So, unless you are a Chad, you will have to do the same.

8. YOU DON'T NEED HER APPROVAL

Like her rejection makes no difference to you, her approval does not either. Yes, it feels good to number close a baddie, but that does not change your value. You set it, and you bring it for people to see. She can appreciate it or not.

9. THE MORE YOU THINK, THE LESS YOU ACT

"Dumb" guys win because they don't know they should not. You know too much, and it paralyses you. Forget the stats. Move. You don't want to be the guy who only entertains the girl who panic-buys at the buzzer.

10. IN SOCIAL DYNAMICS, PERCEPTION IS WHAT MATTERS

Delusional confidence = the belief that precedes proof. Act like you get girls - until it becomes your truth. It is acting first, proving later. You didn't become good at your sport or video game first; you had to build XP points.

11. REFERENCE POINTS ARE CRUCIAL

The more you act, the less you doubt. Reference points are built by doing not overthinking. You can wank on PUA and Game guys’ material for days, but the average guy who takes action is miles ahead of you. People sense armchair commentators.

12. TEST OUT SOCIAL PROOF ONLINE TO SEE

You can either display social proof through images online and see how people react to it, or you can display it by the aura and charisma you display after having built that confidence, where you don't need girls to act as props.

13. REJECTION IS NORMALLY DISTRIBUTED

You will likely receive many rejections, regardless of your subjective rating of the girl, so you may as well opt for the hotter ones; they may or may not be more challenging. Other variables come into play, and your beauty projection is not it.

14. THE MORE VALUE YOU DISPLAY, THE BETTER THE OUTCOMES

Value isn't money; it is emotions. You have to be emotionally relevant for there to be a follow-up, and this is determined by your vibe, body language, appearance, and tonality. Have a fun time and make her forget about her day.

15. INTERPERSONAL DYNAMICS ARE NOT ALL ABOUT OBJECTIVE REALITY

Reality does not define you; it curtails you. Belief, action and presence do. Show the world who you choose to be and watch it adjust.