See what she draws as the core of her identity. What she believes about herself, where it is coming from, and why that is. Just dig deep, as if you're genuinely interested in getting to know her.

2 benefits:

1- Intel for you to use

2- She feels she matters to you

2) Breakdown The Traumatic Moments

People who want a relationship are easy to target because they are desperate to share. So, take note of these moments, and then narrate a story (fake or real) that will resonate with you in it.

=> They will feel closer to you

3) Find the Insecurities from the Vulnerability

Being vulnerable only reveals the surface level; insecurities lie beneath. It is not for you to expose them to her; it is for you to sense them, to then lovebomb her.

=> "He just gets me" => "I am feeling so good with him"