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The Battering Ram Approach

10 Steps Towards A Same Night Lay

The game that suits me the most is the one where I assume attraction from the onset, the setting has to be at night, generally at a bar.

Works efficiently at high buying temperatures and nudges in the right direction with warm and above-average attraction.

Downside => it will come across as being uncalibrated to the chicks, which I am not their type.

Upside => it will fast-track the pull and give that love at first sight narrative.

What does that entail:

1) You approach with confidence

2) You will get shit tested because they think you are an act => you can’t have as much confidence

3) Double down on their shit-test

E.g.:

Her: “Who do you think you are?”

Me: “The guy that your mom warned you about.”

Her: “Does that work with every girl?”

Me: “Ask me that tomorrow morning.”

4) Arrogance / Irrational Confidence is your best friend

You cannot be moved, and you sub-communicate that your previous interactions have all been positive by maintaining your self-belief.

5) You are physically bold

Once you see that she gets her guard down (positive body language)

You get closer to her; you see her reaction. She must not back away.

Say: “I gotta tell you a secret” Go closer to her ear. See if she is leaning towards you or being a bit reluctant.

If the former, when you are about to say something, you slap her ass.

And then say, “You are soft,” and smile/smirk. She will be shocked and give you the “how dare you” face.

(That got me a few smacks in the past, 😂)

“See, you already love me.”

Keep eye contact and the intensity in the interaction.

7) Then move her to a different place out of the original spot to test her compliance

8) If she agrees, great. Have one drink, both of you, to balance with a bit of comfort.

It is only after step 8 that your actual chance of a full close increases dramatically.

Once she is happy moving away from her friends, half of the battle is done.

9) Close on the next opportunity when you get close to her.

10) Then you say that you are leaving, and you tell her to come. If she says “where”, say “mine”, no further explanation. Take her hand and lead her out.

She was most likely with a friend (focus on groups of 2/3 girls) - don’t forget to be chill with them before the isolation.

“I gotta speak to my friends” bs will happen often, you accompany her there.

Then it will be the typical shit “are you sure?”, “You call me?”,

To me, “you take care of her”.

Bla bla bla.

Call a cab during the friends' interaction to show you're leaving, while staying close enough to hear what they say.

And there you go. Same night lay.

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