When you think about the different pills, they actually represent various stages of the grieving process against former views we had on the way we wanted to see our life with the other gender.

Blue Pill => Denial

Red Pill => Anger

Purple Pill => Bargaining

Black Pill => Depression

After Pill => Acceptance

Based on who you are as an individual, you will have a preference on how you want to live your life with the other gender.

It is about prioritising what is the most important thing for you:

Is it family?

Is it sex?

Is it genuine desire?

Is it freedom?

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Life is about tradeoffs; to choose is to renounce. Once you understand the underpinnings of the 4 ideologies mentioned above (watch out for the gatekeepers of the RP, which will tell you it is a Praxeology, confirming by this act alone, it is the thing they claim it is not), you can choose which one of them resonates with you the most to feel fine letting go of it.

Your priorities will come at the expense of other matters which are also relevant to you. People’s inability to accept that creates the frustrations they have a hard time overcoming.

Unlike women, we are men, and we accept that we cannot get what we all want.

“I want to be a career woman and be a good mother at the same time”.

You realise it is completely delusional.

It is the same thing with us, where:

“I expect genuine desire to last the whole duration of the relationship, until death”

“I expect to have sex like at the start with the same person and not get bored of it.”

“I want to keep my freedom whilst being in the framework of a relationship”

Do you see how unrealistic that may be? If it is not for you, it surely is for someone else.

Much of our unhappiness in life stems from the gap between our expectations and the immediate feedback we receive.

We try to fight back and find the blind spots in the argument because we don’t want to accept the logical conclusion from it.

When you have fully grasped the ramifications of these different outcomes, you realise the realities of each one of them, you cannot be frustrated or angry with the outcomes you are not getting:

=> If you want a relationship => Know that you will eventually lose attraction from the girl if there was any to begin with, or that the lack of genuine desire is why you were chosen for that relationship. Sex can be maintained but will eventually be boring, if not for you, for her. It is, however, the best route for having a family and having a bond beyond sex with someone.

If you want sex => You can still have freedom by having variety and benefitting from genuine desire in some cases. However, it could leave you feeling empty because you don’t develop a close bond with someone or have a family.

If you want genuine desire => You understand that it is a fleeting feeling, representing the honeymoon phase of the relationship. It is closely intertwined with sex. As with sex, if that is what you prefer, what you will be faced with is numerous relationships which started well, but you get bored over time as the routine sets in and move on. You will still benefit from a variety of short-term relationships and the freedom that comes with them.

If you want freedom => Avoid having a girlfriend or kids, as this can hinder your wallet and flexibility. You can focus on sex and genuine desire, but your priorities will be the projects you run and the hobbies you have. Again, you may find yourself feeling empty if you don’t have a close bond with someone or if you don’t have kids, as friends and acquaintances, or business relationships won’t be enough.

So, choose your devil and accept what its underpinnings are.