I caught up with 007 (@generationmss on X) to discuss our respective dates for the night.

Here is a recollection of his story.

He was originally out at a bar and saw this group of girls, whom he approached with one in his sight.

They have been approached all night by guys, and when he locked in one of them from the group, she told him she had a boyfriend.

007 - "Cool, give me your IG, and put your boyfriend's number on my phone"

Shocked by his response, she gave him her Instagram. He messaged her on there and got her number afterwards, and they went on a date soon after.

She later admitted she did not have a boyfriend, but it was just a stock response as they were a bunch of girls during that night getting it on => bitch shield.

They did not kiss on the first date, but she went back to his and still has not kissed. Somehow, there was a different feel to it. He did not try to go for the kill, but the tension could be felt.

The idea was that he was just enjoying his time and her presence.

They went on a second date, a group of girls noticed 007, and the girl he was having a date with noticed:

007 says to the girl - "Spit your drink in my mouth.”

She stopped for a moment, considering it.

That is when he commanded her again, and she did.

He used the pre-selection factor as a nudge to make her submit to him.

He then later commanded her to kiss him, which she did.

On both occasions when he invited her back to his place, it was from the same bar, and it was simple:

"Hey, let's go to my place, it is close by and quieter"

She naturally agreed and did not push back.

Within the date, by making her say yes to different little asks, you create a compliance/Yes Ladder that, when the big ask comes, it is only natural that she says yes.

The two biggest moves which tipped the balance in his favour were "spit your drink in my mouth move" and "put your bf number in my phone" in the original interaction.

There is also a 3rd move, which she mentioned about her overprotective mother, and 007 played the idea of them/us against the stifling mom, creating that complicity between them.

The Romeo and Juliette dynamic.

All 3 moves showed fearlessness, IDGAF attitude and complicity, whilst emphasising his frame as the dominant guy to whom she is happy following.

After the Second Date, once she is in the flat, he commands her to take her clothes off:

Her: "No, I can't."

"Don't make me ask twice."

"Only if you take your clothes off."

"Turn your head around [some time passes] I am in my boxer."

She gets undressed, with the little "No, we should not be doing this."

Every time she pushed back, he pulled back physically and reaffirmed:

"I don't wanna us to go too fast." (reverse psychology #1)

"I don't want to have sex with you." (reverse psychology #2)

Then he commanded her to suck him, which she did.

Comes to the point where he is putting the rubber on:

"I am just putting the tip, but we are not going to have sex" (How the fuck 007 could keep his seriousness here, I don't know)

And as soon as he was "in", the rest was history.

LESSONS:

=> Game is about the tension between you and the girl, it happens before her being in your flat, it starts from the beginning of the first interaction

=> Foreplay is not only the physical side of the equation before you get down to business, but also the back and forth, the command, the pull back

=> The moment you start to use your logic is the moment you kill the foreplay. The foreplay is the narrative that gets her wet. She knows how it is going to end, but she wants to feel the tension as long as possible until the end outcome, which is sex

=> The more you play into her own secret agenda without being prompted to, when it comes to her triggers (dominance, non-neediness, uncertainty inducing, pre-selection, the "us" dynamic), the more you create a deep-rooted bond within her. She feels she has found a soul mate who gets her naturally.

=> Women are goofy and cannot be taken seriously, you can literally have your tip just in her, and she will be saying, "We are not having sex".

Objections can be real or fake. The BF stuff was just a roadblock she set, which eventually got 007 to distinguish himself from the mass of guys approaching them. Him blasting through it made him a rarity in a sea of weak competition.

=> Logistics were key, and the compliance ladder set from the date made that last ask natural.

=> Commands are the opposite of comfort, and he used both at the same time. By only doing commands or leaning in, you seem too eager, but mixing it with leaning back and words of reassurance alleviates the tension of where this is going. Too much tension can be too overbearing. It is about calibration.

=> It is all about a dance of "will he" or "will he not" that they respond to, and a great actor is one where she can be fooled from the start, even though your logical mindset tells you, we are on a date, she is at mine, she wants to get railed, she likes me.... and when you act upon that you will fuck it up, as you don't understand her way of communication.