A lawyer friend of mine put me in touch with an early 20-year-old developer he is currently working with on a side project of mine.

It happens he is one of these young French tech wizkids. The conversation was originally professional.

He sent me his LinkedIn, and I saw a tall and jacked Chad.

"You sure you are a Dev? I am not sure I wanna do business with you now 😂"

"Haha, people keep saying I look more like a security guy than an IT guy"

Then, at one point after he finished pitching, I said:

"C'est carré" (Translation: "It is solid")

He understood the reference point I was referring to. It is an expression popularised by the late French rapper Werenoi, and this is where the rapport between us two really started to take place.

We started discussing the best rap songs of Werenoi.

He then asked me further about my field, once the technical aspects of the project were discussed.

"Dating and Relationship Coach"

"How many girls have you been with?"

"Dunno, but beyond three digits"

"You serious?"

"Yeah, what about you?"

"Have a guess"

"55"

"Less, between 30 and 40, but I was mostly in LTRs. I had my first gf at 15 years old, and until now, I was single for only 1 year"

"So, most of your bodies were in that hiatus"

"Yes"

"Mostly on apps?"

"Yes, only, with few exceptions, when girls approached me in real life"

"Yeah, you must have been cleaning up. What was it like?"

"When you are good-looking, it is piss easy. How was it for you?"

"Only 10% were off apps, ballpark. I did not have the patience for it, a good source of fun though"

"Different generations"

"I don't need you to tell me I am getting old" (amused tone)

And I followed up:

"How did you manage your dates?"

"Mate, it was a full-time job, setting two dates during the day”.

"Two dates a day, nigga you are a stakhanovist. How so?"

"Lunch dates and Drinks dates in the evening. I kept a Google Calendar”.

"Like you are running your business, eh. Were they easy to put out?"

"Oh yeah, first dates most of the time. The 2nd dates were with the ones I had a Lunch date with on the first date"

"Age-wise, the girls"

"18-22 [...] I knew a couple of other guys who also cleaned up. On a few occasions, we realised afterwards, we fucked the same girls"

"Have you run the background check with your current gf?"

"Yes, hahaha, all cleared”.

"What about the other guys of your age you know?"

"I would be surprised they have above four bodies"

He then said that for him to be more productive, it is better to have a girlfriend, as chasing tail is time-consuming.

I then asked him:

"Do you think the girls your friends and yourself fucked are part of a small sub-segment of nymphos, or do you think it is just your average girl?"

"Are you asking me if I would go only for a specific type?"

"Basically, did you qualify them to see if they were DTF before the dates?"

"No man, small talk and going on dates with the ones I liked physically."

"So really just discriminating on looks."

"Yeah [...] and it is not a big, big town. More often than not, you see a girl with a bf, and you know one or more people who fucked her”.

"Except the bf"

"He would not be her bf if he did know" (we both laughed).

"What is crazy, though, even the ugliest of women would be getting 'cartouchée' (ran through in French) most days of the week and are more successful than the most popular guys I know, even myself. If I did 3 in a week, that would be a solid week".

"Oh, you indulged in the ugly broads😂"

"No, but I have less selective friends."

"Even fat and ugly girls need love too."

We eventually went back to discussing business and ended the call.

Lessons:

When you are a young bloke, looks will be 80%+ the reason a girl will see you and fuck you. You don’t need good game. They don’t care much about personality. They start looking at it later, when they realise that being ghosted by guys they don’t qualify for is not going to cut it when it comes to getting serious.

Girls are easier to fuck when they are younger because they don’t care as much; it is part of their self-discovery process. This is amusing because this is when they are more valuable from a male lens perspective, and they give it up on the cheap.

It is not only nymphos; it is more a derivative of how hot you are as a young guy. Even the girls who are not particularly promiscuous will give in for the sake of validation and attention from the Chads. These girls have not necessarily gone through the whole block, but bear in mind they have already been test-traded by the selected first dippers and sent back to the market.

A selected few benefits from the whole feast, while the rest get the crumbs, either from Chad’s leftovers as a girlfriend or some casual sex on a misunderstanding (right place, right time).

It is the sexual hyper-capitalism for Gen Z guys, where the looks winners take all and the grassroots barely benefits from the trickle-down pussynomics. Either they “get lucky” early and find a girlfriend with not as much mileage, or they end up being offered over asking price for a 30+ yo fixer-upper, if they decide not to be as overly transactional for young poon as an older guy.