So I went out last night, and it was an interesting showing I had to witness:

3 chads were on dates:

=> Chad 1 - Square jaw, relatively well built, hunter eyes, 6 feet.

Girl 1 - a 7 mostly made and lip fillers, full blonde, 5’9 (with booted heels)

=> Chad 2 - Square Jaw 6’4, square jaw, hunter eyes, beefy

Girl 2 - a 6, really not much to her, less made up than the #1 and dressed pretty basic, 5’5 with flats.

=> Chad 3 - squarest of all the jaws, jacked (I estimate 10-12% body fat), 5’10

=> Girl 3 - a strong 6, light 7. She had a cute face, but you could tell she had some chubby cheeks. She wore a wide jacket, so it was hard to see much. She had one of those cutish, yet at the same time, slaggy faces. 5’1 ish without her heels

And we have our Normie:

=> 5’10-5’11, average built, not bad looking face, but nothing specific out of the ordinary which would make him stand out. Dressed average: white sneakers, standard chinos and a white jumper.

Girl 4 - Slim – a strong 6 / light 7 - wearing leather fitted black pants with a black top.

Date 1 - At first, they were sitting across from each other, and I could tell the guy was keen, while she was relatively passive.

He then moved to sit across from her, but nothing happened, not making a move, although her body language was saying “go for it”. They then go to the bar, and he continues jestermaxxing. At least he had good energy, but he was too appeasing to her. You could tell he was afraid to escalate while dancing around the box.

At one point, he went to the bathroom, so I thought, let’s test the cuckness factor of the guy.

“I can tell you are on a first date.”

“Yes, actually, we are.” She smiles.

“You should help the guy out; the apocalypse is gonna come sooner than him making a move on you.”

“Haha, yes, it is a nice date.”

“I hope so for you, anyway, gotta go back, but good luck.”

Regardless of his tentativeness and other mistakes, he is still in there with a shot.

I see them kissing at the end of the date. Not the most passionate; it was more like, “It was a nice date, I will let you in for a second date, but it ends here tonight.”

Date 2 - Less material on this one, but he clearly showed a lack of confidence through his body language, and nothing came out of it. They left distant at the end of it.

Date 3 - they have been sitting in the same spot (high seats at the bar) until the closing of the bar. She was entertaining him, but you could tell, despite his looks and eagerness, that from the other side of the room, he did not make a move. Must be the English sexuality repressed character.

Nothing happened in the end.

Date 4 with the People’s Champ, he was having the time of his life. Seated diagonally to the girl, the corner of the table separated the two. He was escalating, she was eye fucking him, to eventually have her ending up on him, deep french kissing, so much so that the two girls next to me were enjoying the show.

“It is a porn movie.” one of them said to me

Well, it was. She was not wearing any bras, and when both torsos were one against one another, she lifted it so we could see the side boobs (she had pebbles for tits), so the security had to kick them out to our disappointment.

Yes, she was a bit more drunk than the rest (English gals need that to let go, that is how sad it is).

Bonus: So there was another date, which I did not see much of:

It was pretty stale to begin with. The guy was sitting across from the girl; she seemed like your standard slim English broad. Average + face 6.

He was also pretty average-looking and really gave no edge whatsoever.

At one point, when going to the toilet, she bumps into me:

“Don’t get too drunk too fast on me.” I said.

“I am sorry.”

The way she looked in my eyes, I could tell she was eating me alive.

Anyway, I go to the toilet only to see her again later, leaving with the guy, and looking at me dead in the eyes, with the fuck me eyes.

They leave the bar, really not much happening.

Later, about an hour after that eye contact, I saw them waiting for a cab, both kissing deeply before entering the cab.

This is an example of where the guy just needed not to fuck up, because her agenda was set to get smashed tonight (from her alcohol intake and the way she looked at me)

Here is a perfect example of how context matters more in the vast majority of cases than content (i.e., you).

LESSONS:

You can be born with godly genetics, and still make less of a situation than someone average, who happens to have more presence and is more confident going for it. Another factor is her baseline openness to flirting, which will also determine the way the date will go.

So there are some “skills” involved, and some situations are more complex than others, and in some situations, it is just not going to happen.

Go in there with a happy-go-lucky situation, and don’t be too concerned about whether she likes you or not. Many times, girls tell me they can feel guys being nervous on dates. Remembering the above should help you relax and enjoy the moment. If you are, there are good chances she will.

Even though Chads have a head start, that does not mean they are all killers. They are just allowed more mistakes. If you are not one, make sure to avoid overthinking and self-consciousness, as they are often at the root of these issues.

Also, make your life easier and try to sit across from the girl from the start; choose your seating accordingly, as she will often default to a 1:1 interview-like frame dynamic. Girls usually do everything to sabotage the flirting possibility, often without them realising it. You can only know if that is the case when you try to flirt with them.