
French OG
May 23, 2025
Use bold language and speak with a firm conviction whenever you talk with a girl.
It is about generating emotions and conversational investment from women. Use emotionally charged words; they will better display your personality. This goes back to the authenticity thread from a few days ago.
Make provocative remarks to entice her to respond with her own; this will encourage her to participate even more in the conversation.
You may think it is over the top because you resonate more as a man with factual statements than overly grandiose ones, but it does not work like that with women. Why do you think they resonate with what you deem dumb guys? Because they don't have any filters.
(Please don't make me responsible for further logical conclusions than the one I said.)
"Damn! That picante is the best I have tasted in the city."
Vs
"The picante is good."
You see how one is quite a bland statement, even though it may be true.
The other one inspires more emotions; you speak with your heart, and on top of that, you open a loop ("the city"), prompting her to ask which other cities you have been to (you travel, even though you did not brag, now you were prompted in demonstrating high value).
The bold language will imply strong conviction. As women are rarely sure about anything, look at how they try to avoid making any decisions because they lack conviction. They want to deflect accountability, so they either go back to the board of bitches to dilute it or seek their boyfriend to take one on their behalf.
Strong conviction shows you can make decisions and have something they don't. Believing that you are right is reassuring for a woman. This is a masculine trait. They want to rely on you. How you view yourself will determine how they will view you. In a woman's brain, conviction = confidence.
Don't tell her that the 19th has to be repealed. As with everything, don't go on a Kamikaze mission.
She will unconsciously associate you with low worth if you don't speak with conviction. Because if you don't believe in what you are saying, can you believe in yourself?
However, if you believe in your words and speak like a preacher, she will assume confidence in you.
=> Avoid filler words
=> Be polarising in your views
=> Speak loudly and hold eye contact
=> Take pauses
=> Deep tonality
=> Slow down the velocity at which you speak
=> Get rid of non-confident expressions: "Maybe", "I think" => "I know"
If you are an intelligent and nuanced individual, I understand this may not resonate with you; as you know, things are not always as simple, but remember who your audience is—emotional buyers, not rational ones (at least in the short term).
Who cares what you believe? You could be saying the dumbest shit with the strongest conviction, and they will buy it hook, line and sinker. I mean, look at who they vote for, and you should use that as the perfect contrarian compass for whom your candidate should be.
The Dunning-Kruger effect is your best friend.